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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Another Book Idea - Rich Bitches & Bastards: Stop Giving a Shit What Anyone Thinks

Rich Bitches & Bastards: Stop Giving a Shit What Anyone Thinks


Alright, here’s the deal — this post might piss you off, and honestly, I don’t give a shit.


I’m thinking about writing a new book. The title? Rich Bitches & Bastards: Stop Giving a Shit What Anyone Thinks.


Now, before you start rolling your eyes or getting ready to leave the page, let me just put it out there: You’re probably going to fucking hate it.


Why? Because it’s unapologetic. It’s for the people who are done with pretending they don’t want more. It’s for the rebels who are ready to shut down the voices in their head (and the ones outside of their heads) telling them they can’t or shouldn’t.


This isn’t another “how to build wealth” book with a bunch of fluffy steps you’ll never stick to. Nope. This is about real shit. It’s about changing your money mindset, breaking free from the toxic bullshit that keeps you stuck, and finally building real wealth — no apologies.





What’s It About?



In a nutshell, this book is for people who are tired of feeling held back by what other people think, whether it’s family, society, or the endless stream of bullshit advice out there. I want to give you the tools to stop giving a shit about anyone else’s opinion on your life or your money.


  • Want to build wealth? Stop worrying about the “I don’t have enough” story.
  • Tired of being told “money doesn’t grow on trees”? It does. You just haven’t figured out how to make it yet.
  • Sick of being stuck? Let’s break free from all the limiting beliefs.






But Why This Title?



Because let’s be real — Rich Bitches & Bastards is a title that will make people stop. It’ll get you talking. And I’m not here to play it safe.


The truth is, the world doesn’t give a shit about you unless you give them a reason to. People will try to hold you back, tell you what’s possible, and limit you based on their own small views of the world. This book is all about showing you how to break free from that shit.


If you’re looking for something soft or sugar-coated, keep scrolling. This book isn’t for you 



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