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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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how to treat heal cure anxiety disorder naturally at home

I have had anxiety for many years since i told my partner I was pregnant and he went a-wall! He still treats me like shit if I let him but I don’t any more hence no anxiety. 

The quickest and easiest way I can teach you to get rid of anxiety is to raise your standards.

I don’t mean get yourself in to debt by buying a house and car you can’t afford, actually the opposite has more effect (down grade your physical items so you can afford them) but raise your personal standards ie: don’t tolerate nasty behaviour, eat healthily, wear nice clothes that make you feel good, get a better paid job and so on. 

Look after yourself and make yourself feel good every day no matter what anyone else does, you are your own person - live that life with higher standards

You deserve the best life and stop worrying about other people

Please Comment if this has helped you in a positive way and add suggestions to other readers - please no nasty comments as they will be deleted x 

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