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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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 You are only as happy as the people you surround yourself with, so if your talking to someone that is pessimistic, blames people and is downright rude - GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE TODAY, or ignore them completely 

Today is your day and if that person doesn’t make you smile, move on to the next, and if that person doesn’t make you smile move on to the next and carry on until you have a very short list of friends  that are just crazily fun 

Video call at least 1 friend a day and just have a laugh and chat, you’ll soon find yourself feeling happier. 

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I hope this article helped

Love you peeps x 

Viks 

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