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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to respect money

 You learn how to respect money if you earn it in an enjoyable way, if you don’t enjoy your work you won’t respect your money because you’ll associate the negative ways of earning = negative ways of spending.

If you don’t like your work, instead of spending it on bad things invest it in yourself so you can create rewarding work that pays well and creates a life you love. 

If you don’t like your work and your hoarding the money because your scared of running out, instead of it sitting in the bank earning no interest create a business that will give you joy and will earn you money. 

You have one life enjoy it and enjoy your money 

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