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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to look after yourself and be financially free

 No one teaches us how to look after ourselves  in school So we either learn the hard way or find this blog and let the more mature person teach us! 

In life your going to meet so many influences that do drugs, drink to much and do nasty things to other people 

But ultimately it is up to you which path you follow, it’s going to be harder if your parents were drug users and you learnt this from a young age but you can do it x 

Start today , write down a list that you can keep to . Mine is 

  1. Drink natural sources
  2. Eat lots of fruits, vegetables & sales
  3. Eat lean meats and fish
  4. Avoid alcohol 
  5. Avoid drugs
  6. Be happy 
  7. Have fun
So the next trick is to avoid people that may jeopardise this list. 

Try it for 3 days and see how you feel, and how your bank account feels! 
Vx 

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