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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...

How To Deal With Anxiety

Anxiety is an emotion and you have complete control of it. 

Stop worrying about everything, write down your financial and life goals and stick to them. If someone is always downing your ideas tell them to mind their own business even if they are your spouse. 

You have complete control of this and if you don’t “TAKE CONTROL” anxiety is a sign your out of control 

Also anxiety is a sign that you are a highly intelligent person and you feel stuck in life, release your thoughts and create something amazing like a new business app venture or a new brand that people will love also it will keep your mind occupied which will stop the anxiety in its tracks.

Do something you love, be yourself and enjoy life
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