Rest Is My New Personality

Rest Is My New Personality

Rest Is My New Personality

By Vikki

Once upon a time, my personality was “productive.” People would say things like:

  • “You’re always doing something!”
  • “You’re always so busy!”
  • “How do you get so much done?”

Now my personality is: “I’m tired, leave me alone, I’m horizontal and proud.”


I’m Not Lazy, I Just Don’t Want to be Exhausted Anymore

I spent years proving I’m capable. Now I’m proving I’m allowed to rest.

Honestly, resting might be the most rebellious thing I’ve ever done.


Things That Now Define My Personality

  • being cosy
  • protecting my peace
  • naps
  • lying down
  • saying “no thanks”
  • staring into space as a lifestyle

I’m not burnt out. I’m healing. Big difference.


What I Used To Think Rest Was:

  • wasting time
  • being unproductive
  • falling behind
  • a sign of weakness

What I Now Know Rest Is:

  • recharging your nervous system
  • reclaiming your energy
  • choosing your health
  • giving your brain a moment to breathe

I Don’t Feel Guilty Anymore

Rest is not something you earn after collapsing.

It’s something you practice regularly so you don’t collapse in the first place.


Things I Will Happily Cancel For Rest

  • plans
  • calls
  • messages
  • errands
  • other people’s expectations

Sorry, but I’m in a long-term committed relationship with my bed now.


Rest Looks Like Nothing — but Feels Like Everything

When you slow down long enough to breathe, your body starts remembering what safety feels like.

Rest = healing.

Doing nothing = doing something powerful.


Signs Rest Has Become Your Personality

  • you’re happy doing nothing
  • you nap like it’s a hobby
  • you prioritise comfort over productivity
  • you stop apologising for needing space
  • your new life motto is: “Not today.”

I Choose Calm Now

Call me boring. Call me lazy. Call me grandma energy.

I don’t care.

Being rested feels better than being impressive.


Your turn: If rest was a personality trait, what would yours be?

Comment: “Rest is my superpower.”

Reminder: Your worth is not measured by productivity. Rest is not optional. It’s a requirement for staying alive.

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