Why Do I Keep Loving People Who Don’t Know How to Love Me Back?

Why Do I Keep Loving People Who Don’t Know How to Love Me Back?

Why Do I Keep Loving People Who Don’t Know How to Love Me Back?

You show up. You care deeply. You remember the little things. You love with your whole soul—and they give you crumbs. Silence. Confusion. Emotional distance. You wonder, “Why do I keep loving people who don’t know how to love me back?”

💥 Truth Bomb: You’re Not Asking for Too Much—You’re Asking the Wrong People

🧠 You Learned to Chase Love That Feels Familiar—Not Safe

🔥 You’re Loving People Who Need You to Stay Small

💖 You Deserve Love That Doesn’t Ask You to Disappear

🌱 How to Break the Pattern

  • 📝 Journal: “What does safe love feel like to me?”
  • 💬 Affirm: “I am worthy of love that sees me fully.”
  • 🔥 Notice who makes you chase—and who makes you feel calm
  • 💖 Practice choosing yourself—even when it feels lonely

✨ Final Mantra

“I will no longer abandon myself to feel chosen. I choose love that chooses me back.”

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