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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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how to stop being manipulative

 I understand life is hard, but it’s hard for all of us but you can choose either anger or joy and you’ve chose anger. wheather your hiding bad stuff or having a bad day you need to chose joy instead. Also the manipulation is a massive turn off for sex so you’re probably getting none. 

Your challenge is to be nice, give compliments, help people and find joy in everything you do and eliminate  hate because this’ll lead your life into the dark trenches if there not already! 

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