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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Cash flow is fucking you over

If your earning £1,000,000,000 a year and your spending £1,000,000,000 on crap that doesn’t make you money your fucked. 

On the other hand if your making £1,000,000,000 and take out a loan of £1,000,000,000 on a 5% interest rate and buying real estate for £2,000,000,000 and renting it out for more than the £1,000,000,000 loan and interest rate  your leveraging the loan to make you money plus you still have the asset to sell if need be. Your initial £1 trillion cash investment is holding its value whilst in the bank would be losing money due to inflation. 

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