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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To STOP Feeling Depressed

  Stop doing depressing things, have a shower, wash yourself, brush your teeth, clean the house and make your life nicer. 

Depression is only a thought of which you need to start thinking positive thoughts that will improve your life from now on. 

I hate depressed people so you probably have no friends too! Get out of the house, explore new places and meet new people and get rid of all the negative people in your contact list. 

Don’t use drugs or alcohol to cope as this will make things worse, especially financially. Save that money for new experiences and the new kitchen you’ve been dying to get  and make your living experience amazing. 

Don’t let depression ever enter your head again, life is fun enjoy it…

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