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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Be More Productive

 Wake up and do what you want to do, ignore everyone and everything that distracts you and do that fun shit you’ve been putting off. 

Write a must do list and every task must not take longer than 5 minutes so you don’t get bored, it’s called “speed jobs”.  

Once your speed jobs are done create some “me jobs” these can last half an hour as they’re more fun, they could even last a whole day if you love a me job so much. 

Enjoy…  and comment below your thoughts 

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