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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to cope with a sexless marriage

 

How to cope with a sexless marriage


How to cope with a sexless marriage



I’ve been a sexless marriage for a few years now! And I tell you what it’s a nightmare! I am gagging for it the whole time but my husband is completely not interested.

So I decided to get myself a ME box full of a few classy and luxurious sex toys, when I’m in the mood I take myself off to bed earlier than my husband and enjoy myself for 10 minutes and it feels great especially if you get some of that tingling lube. 

It’s not ideal when there is a full grown man with a penis next to me but men, if you have any suggestions on how to put sex back into a sexless marriage please comment below with your suggestions.



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