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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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What women want during sex

 Let’s face it your not going to get her to have sex with you if you haven’t got a connection in your relationship. 

Women focus on relationships before sex is even considered 

You literally have to be her best friend before you can lead an adventurous and exciting sex life 

It’s a connection you have to build on like building a house, a house made of one brick won’t cut it, it has to have 4 walls and a roof.

Women want to be one whilst having sex and this is being fully comfortable with you. 

Once the ground works have been made, the raunchy ideas that go through women’s heads are mind blowing and you will experience the best sex life EVER. 

Here are a few tips if she’s a bit slow off the mark...

  • Role Play 
  • Handcuffs 
  • Crotchless knickers 
  • Different locations
Enjoy x

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