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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to be positive every day

 There’s a lot of bad vibes out there but guess what your not one of them, be crazy, be wild, have fun and be positive.

Here’s a few comments my partner tells me and my response to him...

You can’t do that - Glad you think so 

Your  a really bad person - ohhhh I like being a bad arse

You never do the washing up  properly - because your so good at it! 

Your always so negative - thanks for the compliment 

What’s wrong with you! - in the nicest possible way - YOU 

I literally have to live with shit but will not lower my standards to his and live the life of positivity

Vx 

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